I get it. Not everyone loves being in front of the camera. And it’s tough when you encounter all those pretty engagement pictures on Instagram and you would love something like that for yourself…but you know that either you or your partner would be so uncomfortable throughout the process. It doesn’t have to be that way! Here are a few simple tips for how to get gorgeous couples photos when you hate posing for the camera! (Trust me, it’s way easier than you think!)
The first (and most important) part of enjoying your couples photoshoot is to find a photographer you really connect with and feel comfortable being around. This is a huge factor in allowing you to feel at ease once the camera comes out!
Personally, I like to spend some time with my couples either in-person or over a video chat so we can get to know each other and make sure we vibe well together! I want your session to be an enormous success, and part of that means becoming friends so we can relax and have fun during your shoot!
If you tense up in front of the camera, that’s probably because you either:
A good photographer can help you overcome those hurdles by guiding you with gentle directions into poses that look and feel totally natural. These kinds of prompts allow your photographer to capture great moments organically, without making you feel stiff or awkward. Rather than go for formal poses, I prefer using fun, candid, even goofy prompts to help my couples feel relaxed. When we’re laughing and joking together, you’ll forget the camera is even there!
Another thing that can help you get gorgeous couples photos even if you’re camera-shy is to center your shoot around an activity you both enjoy, or an activity that is part of your relationship or love story!
This can literally be anything. Walking in the park, sharing a laugh over a cup of coffee, or wining and dining with a picnic in your favorite spot are all activities that provide great photo opps! Sometimes, just having something to keep you busy and distracted is exactly what you need to relax and simply enjoy being with the person you love most!
Yes, it is possible to get beautiful photos of the two of you as a couple, even if one or both of you hates posing for the camera! As a Colorado Springs engagement and couples photographer, I’ve encountered this situation more than once, and I can tell you, I know exactly how to handle it.
Couples are often surprised by just how fun their session was! This is because, with Whitney Marshall Photo, your only job is to be your natural, beautiful selves. I will take care of every step of our journey together so you can enjoy the process, feel confident, and fall in love with both the process and your finished photos!
I cannot wait to show you just how enjoyable a couples photoshoot can be! Whether you’re looking to capture engagement photos or are just after an extra romantic date night, get in touch and we’ll plan the perfect session, all the way from location to outfit ideas. And we’ll have a blast doing it—I promise!
Warmly,
Whitney Marshall
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